Friday, March 30, 2007

thought (s) part I

I got a message from my long lost fren.. we'd known each other since we worked together in the states.. he's kind of like a big bro to me.. he's the kind of guy who'll look after you when you're in trouble.. who'll give you a ride when you'll needed one after work.. who'll lend his ears when you needed someone to talk too.. he's a kind of like that.. maybe bcoz I don't have a big bro, so I tend to treat him like that.. yet I wouldn't declare that he is my 'abang angkat' or even to call him 'abang'.. I called his name instead, bcoz it is soooo not me to declare things to the whole world.. not like some people.. who are so loud, to say 'oo, that's my abang angkat'.. then, next thing you know, they'll end-up together as a couple.. ewww... sorry, please don't expect that from me.. the way you respect people is just the way you treat them, not the way you announce them, in front of other people.. geezz.. enough already with that thought..

Last time, I'd bumped into him at Sub*ng during lunch hour.. with all his frens.. or would I say his business partners.. he'd ventured into this information technology business with 3 of his frens.. and got contract from one of the big-shot automotive company in M'sia.. I thought, he would turned out ok.. since he was on his way making money and getting rich and probably getting well-known.. however, the latest news from his sms to me last week, he said he was in between jobs.. and everything make sense when he opened up what had happened to him since our last meeting.. his 2 partners has runaway, literally, maybe.. I don't know the details.. bcoz he is not the kind of person who'll go into details when he tells a story.. but I think I know what happened.. his partner went, should I say, head over heels, when they'd knew they had landed on a huge account, a very big contract.. without even started the whole work yet.. so, they started to get a new expensive car, to renovate the office with lushes and poshes interior design, I assumed, and other things like that.. the things that you'd been waiting to do your whole life.. to spend hell a lot of money when you got one..

for me, these kind of people are so immature.. bcoz they'd act without thinking of the consequences.. I don't know if it is our culture to be people's backstabber or it is just Jane's theory.. everybody does it, so you should too.. my opinion is it's in a culture.. people who know how to spend money but not to retain or make more money.. and who are easily to become such a dreamy person.. you just simply give them money or whatever they want.. then, suddenly in a blink of the eye, they'll disappear into this arrogant selfish person and so lack of gratitude moron and losing people's respect to them.. they are just humiliate themselves and being such a jerk.. and ironically, they thought they have/get/own everything, but the truth is they ended-up losing the precious one, which is their best frens..

I believe what goes around will comes around.. so, you just wait and see.. whatever bad things you do to people, you will experience it later on.. on top of, please do not forget the punishment you will receive hereafter by GOD.. I'd see this scenarios sooo many times.. happened to people who are dearest to me.. I learn and try not to become such that person.. that's my thought..

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

mioaw...
huhu...
biaser la tuh...
btw...
i think in that last paragraph u mean what goes around comes around...
heh...
-ulun-

Tipah & Bodi said...

why in the whole world I typed 'what comes around comes around.. sorry for that mis-typo thing.. nak cepat punya pasal la tuh.. mind say lain fingers say lain.. tq for pointing that out.. btw, when r u coming home??