the sequel

i don't know if the title is suitable enough for this entry.. one of dearest colleague experienced betrayal by another colleague.. not long after that, i experienced the same thing.. it came from a very close friend.. i felt like someone had slapped straight and hard to my face.. it was all began with one of our friend kind of needed help.. and the other friend who back-her up has made assumption and accusation of moi not being supportive enough for this so called 'needed friend'..

as for why i'm not being supportive enough... her being in trouble now.. her being such in a deep s**t.. is because of her own wrongdoing.. towards her parent.. for me, this is the root of all problems she facing right now.. yet, she acts as if this is not her fault, and nothing has to do with her.. being whiney and go on and on and on endlessly about her problems.. as if we ourselves live in a problematic free life.. as if she's the only one with the most difficult life in the world.. most of the trouble were usually involving and revolving around monetary.. things that i hate so much is that she could act all this innocent and pitiful of herself.. since been single back in the college days.. until now being married to a man who is most likely like herself.. what a perfect match to caused double trouble.. i know this because, another good friend of mine told me about this.. she was the wedding planner of the troublesome friend.. and she had witnessed a lot of disturbing things around the house.. and which i believed whatever single little thing she told me..

it's not that i don't want to help her.. i wanted too.. i have my own reason for not doing that.. maybe because i have a very strong and firm principle than anyone else on this matter.. that's why i'm being assumed/accused of so called unsupportive and unhelpful enough.. so i kind of gave up.. for me, what's the point of i'm feeding her fish everyday.. if she herself doesn't really want to CHANGE her life.. my wedding planner friend.. was helping out by not only feeding her fish but teaching her how to catch the fish as well.. but this so called needed friend seem ungrateful enough to have all these beautiful and helpful souls around her.. who are willing to help her in every way.. she would simply pinjam duit org sana.. pinjam duit org sini.. and her attitude towards her family is that she just order everything she wants.. i.e. mak nak duit, mak nak makan.. because of her attitude and willpower who simply doesn't want to CHANGE.. that's what pissed us (moi and the wedding planner) the most.. and NOT that i don't want to support and help her..

i might change my mind.. if she is willing to change her attitude and all.. as for the time being, that's where i stand.. if it takes 10-20 years her to realize what she's done is very wrong.. so be it.. and for this friend who called me unsupportive and unhelpful enough.. sorry, if my help and support doesn't really achieve your standard and par level.. because my definition of help is if there's any wrongdoing done by one of my close friends, i'm responsible to point that out.. and another thing is, if you really sincere wanted to help, you don't have to buzzing around to let everyone in this whole world knows.. so there, i rest my case..

note: different people take things differently.. you said, you always think good thing about other people.. yeah, that's your way of taking things.. not all people capable of doing that.. people like me, who happen to know the other side of the story.. just couldn't close my eyes and agree on whatever wrongdoing being done.. please bear that in mind before.. in case next time to assume people this and that..